Epictetus, Golden Sayings 34

Asked how a man might eat acceptably to the Gods, Epictetus replied:

If when he eats, he can be just, cheerful, equable, temperate, and orderly, can he not thus eat acceptably to the Gods? 

But when you call for warm water, and your slave does not answer, or when he brings it lukewarm, or is not even found to be in the house at all, then not to be vexed nor burst with anger, is not that acceptable to the Gods? 

"But how can one endure such people?"

Slave, will you not endure your own brother, who has God as his forefather, even as a son sprung from the same stock, and of the same high descent as yourself? And if you are stationed in a high position, are you therefore forthwith set up as a tyrant? 

Remember who you are, and whom you rule, that they are by nature your kinsmen, your brothers, the offspring of God. 

"But I paid a price for them, not they for me!"

Do you see where you are looking—down to the earth, to the pit, to those despicable laws of the dead? But to the laws of the Gods you do not look.