Accordingly,
say and do everything in conformity with the soundest reason. For
such a purpose frees a man from trouble, and warfare, and all artifice and ostentatious display.
—Marcus
Aurelius, Meditations, Book 4 (tr
Long)
This doesn’t
mean I can’t enjoy the scenic route, or follow the road less traveled, or take
the long way home, or find pleasure in a winding path. It’s too easy to mix up
all of the different road analogies. It’s just about staying on task, and not
allowing ourselves to be diverted from our awareness of what is true and the
good in this life.
The
short way is the most natural, in the sense that it removes whatever is
unnecessary, and frees us from distraction. If I always keep my mind directly
focused on my goal, whatever else may be happening around me, I will not be
tempted to confuse lesser things for greater things. If I can always relate my
every thought and action directly to the purpose of a life well lived, I will
avoid becoming lost in the confusion.
What is
it that really gets us into trouble? Wanting all of the things we do not need.
What is
it that brings us into conflict with others? Assuming that our own happiness
requires a control over the lives of others.
What is
it that tempts us to put on a show? Thinking that it is more important to be
seen than to simply do.
The
short way always points toward the goal. When asked what is most important in
life, people offer a befuddling range of answers. A career, success, security,
friends and family, health, a long life, or just having fun. Now the Stoic may
well have these things, or he may not have them, and he recognizes why they
might be preferable. But he will never confuse them with what he should desire
above all else, always living with virtue.
I once
confused a girl I knew when she asked me whether I’d rather be rich or
handsome, and I told here I’d rather be a good man.
“That’s
not the question!” she said.
“Exactly,”
I replied. “It isn’t the question at all. It’s a diversion from the question.”
As soon
as I start thinking about becoming rich, or spend my time trying to appear
handsome, I am no longer keeping my eyes on the prize. Shallow people may be
drawn to shiny things, but people of conviction are drawn to things that are
true and good, however dull they may appear.
Becoming
busy with all the accessories of living will keep me turned away from the task.
I will then find that I am out of time, because life is short, and I didn’t run
the short way.
Written in 2/2006
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