The Death of Marcus Aurelius

The Death of Marcus Aurelius

Thursday, December 13, 2018

Boethius, The Consolation 3.3


She lowered her eyes for a little while as though searching the innermost recesses of her mind, and then she continued: “The trouble of the many and various aims of mortal men bring them much care, and herein they go forward by different paths but strive to reach one end, which is happiness.

“And that good is that, to which if any man attain, he can desire nothing further. It is that highest of all good things, and it embraces in itself all good things. If any good is lacking, it cannot be the highest good, since then there is left outside it something which can be desired.

“Wherefore happiness is a state that is made perfect by the union of all good things. This end all men seek to reach, as I said, though by different paths. For there is implanted by nature in the minds of men a desire for the true good, but error leads them astray towards false goods by wrong paths.

“Some men believe that the highest good is to lack nothing, and so they are at pains to possess abundant riches.

“Others consider the true good to be that which is most worthy of admiration, and so they strive to attain to places of honor, and to be held by their fellow-citizens in honor thereby.

“Some determine that the highest good lies in the highest power, and so they either desire to reign themselves, or try to cleave to those who do reign.

“Others think that renown is the greatest good, and they therefore hasten to make a famous name by the arts of peace or of war.

“But more than all measure the fruit of good by pleasure and enjoyment, and these think that the happiest man is abandoned to pleasure.”. . .

—from Book 3, Prose 2

It might seem strange if people needed something, while being completely unaware that they needed it, but it might seem even stranger if people knew there was something they needed, and even had a name for it, but still couldn’t recognize it.

It would be much like not knowing I require a cure, because I am ignorant of the fact that I am sick, as distinct from knowing I should take a remedy for what ails me, and knowing what the necessary medicine is called, but being ignorant of which color pill is the right one.

It isn’t so strange after all, however, because I suggest we do precisely this, day in and day out, when it comes to being happy. Surely none of us are ignorant that we want to be happy, that we needs to be happy, that it is in fact the most important thing in life to work for. Yet at the same time, many of us have absolutely no idea what happiness actually is, and what we need in order to get it.

Over years of trying to teach philosophy, I would always suggest to people that the pursuit was hardly pointless or impractical, but rather the most critical and necessary discipline that each and every person needed to master. I was, of course, looked at as if I was insane, because it was assumed I meant reading stuffy books. Rather, I meant that it was only by sound reasoning that we can ever understand how we should live, what will make our actions worthwhile, and which paths can lead us to happiness.

Whatever variations of the term we may use, we are all looking for the same thing. We want to be content, complete, fulfilled, and deprived of nothing that we need. We want a life that is good and not bad, full of right things instead of wrong things, and we would like this in the best possible way. We understand that happiness is not living with mediocrity, but with excellence. If it isn’t the best, there would still be something more to desire.

We even have that ubiquitous yellow smiley face to represent all of it, a symbol that I sometimes find more disturbing than comforting. What makes me a bit uncomfortable is that we aren’t even sure exactly what it means. “Well, you know, being happy! Everyone knows what that is!” That look I get when people think I am insane turns to a look of resentment when I ask for specifics.

Engineers calculate tolerances to the slightest degree, doctors map all the details of the human body, and businessmen consider every nuanced factor in the market, but when it comes to happiness, the most important aspect of all, we are at a loss for words. We think platitudes or vague sentiments will suffice.

Now the depth of human living is far more profound than the laws of physics, biology, or economics, but that should be a reason to be more careful instead of less careful.

Sometimes we embrace what we think is the easiest answer, or the one we are simply most familiar with from those around us. So we might say that money is happiness, or respect, or power, or great achievements. Many of us will say that pleasure is happiness, because we assume that feeling good must be the highest good.

And in each of these cases, Lady Philosophy will explain, our ignorance has led us down the wrong path. We see a bit of the good here, a piece of it over there, and we forget to look for the whole good, the one that includes them all, and rises above them all. We confuse what is imperfect and incomplete with what is perfect and complete. 

Written in 9/2015

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