Building upon many years of privately shared thoughts on the real benefits of Stoic Philosophy, Liam Milburn eventually published a selection of Stoic passages that had helped him to live well. They were accompanied by some of his own personal reflections. This blog hopes to continue his mission of encouraging the wisdom of Stoicism in the exercise of everyday life. All the reflections are taken from his notes, from late 1992 to early 2017.
The Death of Marcus Aurelius
Saturday, August 21, 2021
Chuang Tzu 1.3
Dhammapada 149
Seneca, Moral Letters 14.8
For speechmaking at the bar, or any other pursuit that claims the people's attention, wins enemies for a man; but philosophy is peaceful and minds her own business. Men cannot scorn her; she is honored by every profession, even the vilest among them. Evil can never grow so strong, and nobility of character can never be so plotted against, that the name of philosophy shall cease to be worshipful and sacred.
A passage like this will confuse many readers, since it seems like the exact opposite is the case, that philosophers are met with confusion at best, and derision at worst.
I will always remember the look of disappointment, perhaps even contempt, on the face of the mother of a girl I fancied, when I told her I was studying philosophy and history. “Well, I guess you might not be smart enough to become a doctor like my husband, but maybe you could manage to become a lawyer? Why waste your life?”
The problem, of course, is what we really mean by being a philosopher. Are we referring to philosophy as a worldly career, as just another means for acquiring wealth and status? If so, the protective mother was quite right, because that sort of professional academic will never have a place high up in the hierarchy of important people, as much as he might wish to think he does.
Yet philosophy can mean something far more fundamental, compared to which the trappings of a job or the accumulation of honors are quite insignificant. Whatever else his circumstances may be, the philosopher sees that wisdom is the only currency that counts, and that the improvement of his own character is his greatest calling. Epictetus was such a philosopher, though he was only a slave. Marcus Aurelius was such a philosopher, though he was only an emperor.
However else a stuffy scholar can come across, most people will still have an immediate respect for someone who passes through this life with understanding and with love, regardless of his trade. True philosophy is about our human calling, and it speaks to our instinctive need for meaning and purpose. You know it right away when you find it.
The best will stand in awe of the sage, the conflicted will find inspiration in him, and even the worst will hesitate to do him any harm, sensing the touch of the divine in him. Even if they do persecute him, the way he responds can only fill them with a sense of shame.
Lawyers, politicians, or celebrities can win many admirers, but the very nature of their game will also inspire many profound resentments. The philosopher can avoid much of that, for he is completely uninterested in playing such a game.
Friday, August 20, 2021
Thursday, August 19, 2021
Wisdom from the Bhagavad Gita 36
1. Again, O mighty-armed, do you listen to My supreme word, which I, wishing your welfare, will tell you who are delighted to hear Me.
2. Neither the hosts of Devas, nor the great Rishis, know My origin, for in every way I am the source of all the Devas and the great Rishis.
4-5. Intellect, knowledge, non-delusion, forbearance, truth, restraint of the external senses, calmness of heart, happiness, misery, birth, death, fear, as well as fearlessness, non-injury, evenness, contentment, austerity, benevolence, good name, as well as ill-fame—these different kinds of qualities of beings arise from Me alone.
6. The seven great Rishis as well as the four ancient Manus, possessed of powers like Me due to their thoughts being fixed on Me, were born of My mind; from them are these creatures in the world.
7. He who in reality knows these manifold manifestations of My being and this Yoga power of Mine, becomes established in the unshakable Yoga; there is no doubt about it.
8. l am the origin of all, from Me everything evolves—thus thinking the wise worship Me with loving consciousness.
9. With their minds wholly in Me, with their senses absorbed in Me, enlightening one another, and always speaking of Me, they are satisfied and delighted.
10. To them, ever steadfast and serving Me with affection, I give that Buddhi Yoga by which they come unto Me.
11. Out of mere compassion for them, I, abiding in their hearts, destroy the darkness in them born of ignorance, by the luminous lamp of knowledge.
Seneca, Moral Letters 14.7
It is hard to observe a mean; we must be wary of letting the fear of jealousy lead us into becoming objects of scorn, lest, when we choose not to stamp others down, we let them think that they can stamp us down.
The power to inspire fear has caused many men to be in fear. Let us withdraw ourselves in every way; for it is as harmful to be scorned as to be admired.
Instead of rushing headlong into trouble, let me consider how I can let it pass by me. There is no wisdom in going against things when I could go with them, and no courage in fighting for the sake of fighting.
I cannot determine what obstacles I will face, for while my own judgments are within my power, the judgements of others are not. Nevertheless, I can most certainly do my best to discourage the wrath in others. As Seneca says, the presence of hatred, jealousy, and scorn are surefire invitations to conflict. When these rear their ugly heads, it is best to get out of the way.
Prudence is never merely about the theory, about grasping the principle; it further requires the practice, an ability to exercise a truth in changing circumstances. Accordingly, doing the right thing will always involve a delicate act of estimation, where habit becomes the best teacher. Maintaining the balance can be precarious, and it is often hindsight alone that keeps me from making the same mistake twice.
There are so many possible dilemmas to face, but Seneca provides a very helpful example. Imagine that you are concerned about another becoming envious of what you possess, and so you make a point of appearing humble instead of proud.
Push this just a bit too far, however, and you may well find yourself looking like a weakling. Now the vicious man is no longer worried about you being better than him, and he has turned to scheming about all the ways he can take advantage of your being lesser than him.
Go the other way, by putting your foot down, and now you are the one who come across as the hated tyrant. Envy on the right hand, scorn on the left hand. Is there any way out of this mess?
No, in the sense that the world won’t change for us. Yes, in the sense that we can adapt ourselves to the world.
Wednesday, August 18, 2021
Wisdom from the Early Cynics, Antisthenes 12
Wisdom from the Early Stoics, Zeno of Citium 36
Sayings of Ramakrishna 107
Seneca, Moral Letters 14.6
Again, let us possess nothing that can be snatched from us to the great profit of a plotting foe. Let there be as little booty as possible on your person.
No one sets out to shed the blood of his fellow men for the sake of bloodshed—at any rate very few. More murderers speculate on their profits than give vent to hatred. If you are empty-handed, the highwayman passes you by; even along an infested road, the poor may travel in peace.
When others do me wrong, my first instinct may be to respond in kind. My hope is that I can defeat them by returning more of the same, and that by being stronger than them, I will somehow become better than them.
If I take a moment for understanding, instead of just for feeling, I will realize that I have been completely defeated, because by allowing myself to act unjustly, I myself have now become one of the unjust. I would have saved myself much grief by remembering an expression I was taught as a child: two wrongs don’t make a right.
If I don’t want to be a wicked man, I will hardly achieve this by thinking wicked thoughts and committing wicked deeds. The better way, as Marcus Aurelius said, is to be unlike the offender. Don’t follow that same path, as it must lead to the very same ruin.
Unreflective people, who are easily drawn into herds, pursue pleasure, money, and fame, and the sense that I no longer “belong” to them might take some getting used to. Nevertheless, in standing for myself, and hence belonging to Nature, I will desire very different things. Parting ways about our values, we are not in competition, and so there is no need to fight with them.
I must continue to offer them my hand, but our wants have ceased to be aligned. What does the one have that the other could covet? They have worked to accumulate more, while I have worked to be content with little, and they are likely to overlook my meager possessions. If they do happen to pay attention to my trinkets, I am still far better prepared for losing them than they are for gaining them.
Yes, this can only be possible if I have made a full Stoic Turn, not one of half measures, and yes, there will still be critical times when I must stand up for my need in the face of their greed. Through it all, however, I have made myself so small in their eyes that I am hardly worth their scrutiny or efforts, and in this I can find some peace of mind.
By far the most common kinds of injustice are committed by grasping men who can’t bear to see someone else with something that they crave. I could always try to stop them, or I could also try to stop myself from playing their game to begin with.
Tuesday, August 17, 2021
Stoic Snippets 95
Seneca, Moral Letters 14.5
Your more careful pilot, however, questions those who know the locality as to the tides and the meaning of the clouds; he holds his course far from that region notorious for its swirling waters.
Our wise man does the same; he shuns a strong man who may be injurious to him, making a point of not seeming to avoid him, because an important part of one's safety lies in not seeking safety openly; for what one avoids, one condemns.
I act poorly when I act rashly, and I act rashly when I do not temper my passions with reason. Bravery is confused with bravado, calm is replaced by carelessness, and caution gives way to negligence.
I can hardly be a bigger man if I do not first know how to be a better man. I see it all around me, this assumption that throwing one’s weight about will put the world in its place, and it only ends in tragedy for all involved. There is no heroism in raising my hand to a freight train, and no point will be proven by leaping from a cliff.
I have little direct experience with seamanship, though I do understand the prudence of carefully navigating through all the dangers ahead of me. My own analogy, which I must reflect upon every day, is the hazard of driving on America’s highways.
The loss of life and limb on the roads is already bad enough, though I can only wonder why it isn’t far worse, given how often I see a reckless fellow speeding and weaving along in a ton of metal, so eager to gratify his urgency, regardless of the foolish risk he takes. I suppose he believes that he is in control, but he is not even in control of himself, let alone of his vehicle. Whatever he may think, he is not invincible.
I now see a twisted wreck on the side of the street most every day. I am acutely aware that I won’t be able to stop other drivers from being senseless, though I do not need to be senseless myself.
So it is in all aspects of life. Stay clear of the bully and the braggart, just as you would give way when that eighteen-wheeler is running a stop sign. Don’t make a scene about being defiant, just as you shouldn’t flip the finger at an angry driver.
Whenever possible, do not cross paths with the selfish and the brutish, just as no good will come from yelling and cursing at someone who has rear-ended you because he was chatting on his phone.
The more you draw attention to yourself, the more you are egging him on. Find contentment in anonymously being the better man. Avoid smugly basking in your righteousness, and certainly don’t show him any fear, as this gives him an excuse to focus his resentment directly upon you.
“But he’s done me wrong, and I need to give him a piece of my mind!”
Monday, August 16, 2021
Dhammapada 148
Seneca, Moral Letters 14.4
Let us, therefore, see to it that we abstain from giving offense.
It is sometimes the people that we ought to fear; or sometimes a body of influential oligarchs in the Senate, if the method of governing the State is such that most of the business is done by that body; and sometimes individuals equipped with power by the people and against the people. It is burdensome to keep the friendship of all such persons; it is enough not to make enemies of them.
So the wise man will never provoke the anger of those in power; no, he will even turn his course, precisely as he would turn from a storm if he were steering a ship.
At first, this may seem a bit confusing. On the one hand, I am to believe that courage is an essential Stoic virtue, that I should be willing to face any obstacle to do what is right, and yet on the other hand, I am now told that it is best to duck and cover, to avoid any danger to begin with. Which is it?
As I have found time and time again, I am seeing a contradiction where none is present, because I am not looking at the problem in the higher context of virtue as my responsibility. There is a world of difference between doing what is necessary and seeking out quite unnecessary conflicts for myself.
I must surely act with courage when painful things happen to me, though it is self-destructive to stir up painful things that hardly need to happen.
Why poke at the hornet’s nest when I could just as easily walk around it? The prudent man confronts trouble with principle, but he first prefers to stay out of trouble.
How can I discern that difference, especially in the heat of the moment? My own motives will often give me a sign. I ought to distinguish between acting from conscience, where I am in service to what is right, and acting from pride, where I am expecting to be served by making a scene. To use the old phrase, it is like the contrast between ending a fight and picking a fight.
I will indeed come across some people who hold a resentment against me, for whatever reason, and it will do me no good to urge them along. Most people, however, will be quite oblivious to me, unless, of course, I deliberately point to something about myself that offends them. There is no bravery in painting a target on my back.
I must be wary of the will of the mob, because it is easily inflamed and hardily resistant to reason.
The rich and powerful are used to having their way, and in many cases I can let them continue with their follies, since they are of no value to me.
The bureaucrats and holders of high office like to feel important, so let them parade about. I do not have to seek their approval.
Let me offer friendship to all, but let me not think that they will be friends in return, or that I can please all of the people all of the time. If I must stand up to them, I had better be sure that I am fighting for something worthwhile, where my character itself is at stake, not my vanity.






















