Building upon many years of privately shared thoughts on the real benefits of Stoic Philosophy, Liam Milburn eventually published a selection of Stoic passages that had helped him to live well. They were accompanied by some of his own personal reflections. This blog hopes to continue his mission of encouraging the wisdom of Stoicism in the exercise of everyday life. All the reflections are taken from his notes, from late 1992 to early 2017.
The Death of Marcus Aurelius
Friday, December 31, 2021
Wisdom from the Bhagavad Gita 41
Sanjaya said:
9. Having thus spoken, O King, Hari, the Great Lord of Yoga, showed unto the son of Prithâ, His Supreme Ishvara-Form—
10. With numerous mouths and eyes, with numerous wondrous sights, with numerous celestial ornaments, with numerous celestial weapons uplifted;
11. Wearing celestial garlands and apparel, anointed with celestial-scented unguents, the All-wonderful, Resplendent, Boundless and All-formed.
12. If the splendor of a thousand suns were to rise up at once in the sky, that would be like the splendor of that Mighty Being.
13. There in the body of the God of gods, the son of Pându then saw the whole Universe resting in one, with its manifold divisions.
14. Then Dhananjaya, filled with wonder, with his hair standing on end, bending down his head to the Deva in adoration, spoke with joined palms.
Arjuna said:
15. I see all the Devas, O Deva, in Your body, and hosts of all grades of beings; Brahma, the Lord, seated on the lotus, and all the Rishis and celestial serpents.
16. I see You of boundless form on every side with manifold arms, stomachs, mouths and eyes; neither the end nor the middle, nor also the beginning of You do I see, O Lord of the Universe, O Universal Form.
17. I see You with diadem, club, and discus; a mass of radiance shining everywhere, very hard to look at, all around blazing like burning fire and sun, and immeasurable.
18. You are the Imperishable, the Supreme Being, the one thing to be known. You are the great Refuge of this Universe;. You are the undying Guardian of the Eternal Dharma, You are the Ancient. Purusha, I ween.
19. I see You without beginning, middle or end, infinite in power, of manifold arms; the sun and the moon Your eyes, the burning fire Your mouth; heating the whole Universe with Your radiance.
20. The space between heaven and earth and all the quarters are filled by You alone; having seen this, Your marvelous and awful Form, the three worlds are trembling with fear, O Great-souled One.
—Bhagavad Gita, 11:9-20
Sayings of Ramakrishna 131
Seneca, Moral Letters 19.6
Any way you please.
Reflect how many hazards you have ventured for the sake of money, and how much toil you have undertaken for a title! You must dare something to gain leisure, also—or else grow old amid the worries of procuratorships abroad and subsequently of civil duties at home, living in turmoil and in ever fresh floods of responsibilities, which no man has ever succeeded in avoiding by unobtrusiveness or by seclusion of life.
But won’t it be terribly difficult to disengage from all those layers of involvement? If I have commitments, I am bound by duty to gladly fulfill them, but let me be certain I am not confusing a commitment with an attachment. Where I prefer the limelight, I can just as easily choose not to prefer it. Where I have become accustomed to fineries, I can decide to redirect my tastes, to return to something purer and simpler.
For all the obstacles that can stand in the way of the body, there is nothing to hinder the mind and the will except their own movements. As that timeless line from Lawrence of Arabia, one of my favorite films, has it: “Aqaba is over there. It’s only a matter of going.”
If I dedicate myself to understanding with fullness, the right way to live will also present itself to me as the most desirable way to live, and so I will not hesitate to pass over any number of lesser prizes in order to win the greatest. My motivation only wanes when I think I see something more enticing over there, and then I allow myself to be diverted from the task.
If I bother to reflect with honesty and clarity, I discover that those shiny trinkets are never as satisfying as they at first appear, much like the toys children crave for months and months, only to find them a letdown when they are finally out of the package. There is the frantic rushing about in coveting them, the edgy nervousness in keeping a hold of them, and the baffled confusion when they don’t live up to the exaggerated expectations.
If it’s so good, why am I still restless? If it’s so fulfilling, why do I continue to want more? There is no profound mystery to this, just an awareness that human nature can never be perfected by piling up things that have no direct bearing on the content of character. It should not surprise me that the more I mess about with trivialities, the more meaningless and frustrating my life becomes.
Thursday, December 30, 2021
Wisdom from the Early Cynics, Diogenes 1
Wisdom from the Early Stoics, Zeno of Citium 41
An adjurative utterance is something . . . A vocative utterance is something the use of which implies that you are addressing someone; for instance:
How like to Priam's sons the cowherd is!
Wednesday, December 29, 2021
Stoic Snippets 119
Seneca, Moral Letters 19.5
Would you rather be poor and sated, or rich and hungry? Prosperity is not only greedy, but it also lies exposed to the greed of others. And as long as nothing satisfies you, you yourself cannot satisfy others.
When I’m feeling sorry for myself, I am tempted to say that I never had all that much to begin with, and yet I know quite well that I am only laying down another smokescreen. Distinguish.
Though I have regularly struggled with paying the bills, the statistics put me comfortably in the middle class. Though I often feel completely clueless, I somehow managed to be in the tiny percentage of Americans to earn a Doctorate. Though I tend to think of myself as unlovable, the constant sacrifices by my parents, the steady commitment of a wife, and the undying affection of the children tell me otherwise.
Where is the source of that restlessness and anxiety? Would a house twice as big make the pain go away? Would another fancy degree improve my state of mind? Maybe a mistress, or perhaps a whole harem? It sounds silly when I say it that way, and yet too many of us succumb to precisely such nightmarish fantasies.
And it is all because we are trying to fill an emptiness on the inside with things from the outside. It is all because we are dissatisfied with being ourselves, and so lust after being someone else. And it is all because we believe we must become bigger instead of kinder.
A private life does not require an isolation from others, though it does require no longer showing off to others. There is no need to prove my importance to anyone else, since the proof is in the living, not in the seeming. As I throw away the crutch of being accepted by the crowd, I am finally walking on my own two feet.
I may finally ask myself, “Where have you been all my life?”
Perhaps it feels like I suddenly have less of that proverbial “stuff”? Good. It was never about that. I now look deeply into a very few things, and love them without condition, instead of hoarding a countless number of objects I pass over too quickly, using them and then tossing them aside.
“But the more I profit out of the world, the more I can give to others!” That statement is completely ass-backwards. The business of life starts with the debits, not with the credits.
First, I am staring myself straight in the eye, and I know that I am deceiving myself. Please stop it with that.
Second, if giving myself to others is genuinely what matters to me, then I will be pleased as punch to limit myself to just myself.
Is there a healthy longing of concern? Check. Is there a vital urge for compassion? Check. Whatever else the rest of the world is messing about with, what I am now doing is exactly what Providence intended for me to do.
Tuesday, December 28, 2021
Dhammapada 173
Seneca, Moral Letters 19.4
You were removed far from the sight of wholesome living by your swift rise to prosperity, by your province, by your position as procurator, and by all that such things promise; you will next acquire more important duties and after them still more.
And what will be the result? Why wait until there is nothing left for you to crave? That time will never come. We hold that there is a succession of causes, from which fate is woven; similarly, you may be sure, there is a succession in our desires; for one begins where its predecessor ends.
Given how deeply confused we can be about the source of our happiness, is it any surprise how turned around we also get when it comes to a measure of success or failure in life? The popular standard is that the better man is the one with more “stuff”, and so we further assume that it is absolutely best to have as much of this “stuff” as soon and as often as possible.
Consequently, we may think it most helpful to surround our children from birth with plenty of worldly privilege and prestige, to give them an “advantage” of wealth and influence in climbing that ladder of achievement.
Is it possible that we are doing them far greater harm than good in all this, not merely by praising riches over poverty, but rather by even encouraging them to depend on situations that have nothing to do with who they really are? What use will there be in telling them to work hard, when the effort is directed toward the wrong goal?
It might seem odd for Seneca to tell Lucilius that he would be better off back in the obscurity of his childhood than in the prosperity of his adulthood, but that will only be so if we are working from the false claim that contentment is in the circumstances.
Seneca isn’t just proposing the contraries to the usual premises, that rich is good and that poor is bad, and he is instead challenging us to discover a different model of human worth altogether. The presence or absence of external things is not a requirement for being happy; our internal choices about how we relate to the presence or absence of such things is the key to being happy.
The problem starts when we love fortune for its own sake, forgetting that events are not in themselves beneficial or harmful to the soul. Perhaps the change in estimation is slow and unassuming, yet the result is still a relationship where mastery has given way to slavery. I have never been as socially prominent as Seneca or Lucilius, though that creeping addiction sounds awfully familiar.
Has being given more tempted me to neglect the dignity of my thoughts and deeds? If it beyond my power to alter what is around me, it is always within my power to alter my point of view, such that I can act as if I am poor in body, so that I may become rich in spirit.
When I make demands for very little, never currying favor or expecting any further profit, I am also able to appreciate how everything I already am is more than enough to be whole. A greed for ever-growing possessions cannot be satisfied, while my own acts of understanding and of love cannot be exhausted.
Monday, December 27, 2021
On the Morning of Christ's Nativity, Take Two . . .
Sunday, December 26, 2021
Xenophon, Memorabilia of Socrates 3
Seneca, Moral Letters 19.3
But none of these men courts you for yourself; they merely court something from you. People used to hunt friends, but now they hunt money; if a lonely old man changes his will, the morning-caller transfers himself to another door.
Great things cannot be bought for small sums; so reckon up whether it is preferable to leave your own true self, or merely some of your belongings.
I find myself both grinning and clenching my jaw at Seneca’s reference to the fear of losing our “clients”. It is a perfect challenge to my generation, so spoiled, shallow, and grasping. We were raised to become the perfect professionals, which meant nothing but a mastery of buying and selling, won with a fluency in the clever crafting of image.
This made it tragically easier to follow a life of total self-service, under the appearance of progressive enlightenment. Very few of us escaped from the trap, none of us without a good number of scars to show for it.
It doesn’t have to be that way. Instead of being dazzled by the many trinkets, or getting sucked into the shifty games of manipulation, there remains the option of recovering what is genuinely human, and of retiring from everything that is coldly inhuman.
Why worry so much about the vagaries of social standing, which are at the mercy of gossip and flattery, when I could busy myself with a moral standing, which is always mine to keep? Why fret over losing my power and influence over others, when the only power and influence that matter are those I have over the content of my own character?
Contrary to all the worldly expectations, I have nothing to lose and everything to gain by making a Stoic Turn. It is impossible to be deprived of what wasn’t mine to begin with, and whatever exists within the heart and the mind remains beyond the reach of the bandits and the players.
And there should be no delusions here about assuming that my bosses, partners, colleagues, or customers are concerned with my best interests. I will indeed find good people among them, and yet whatever is noble in their souls will have nothing to do with business profits, and everything to do with a simple presence of understanding and love. It is contradictory to say that I must sign a contract or exchange money to find any such human decency.
If they only want you for what you can give them, head for the hills. If they love you for your own sake, then the fancy balance sheets can be tossed out the window. No more excuses. Integrity matters more than style, commitment stands for more than commodities.
Saturday, December 25, 2021
On the Morning of Christ's Nativity
I.
Wherin the Son of Heav'ns eternal King,
Of wedded Maid, and Virgin Mother born,
Our great redemption from above did bring;
For so the holy sages once did sing,
That he our deadly forfeit should release,
And with his Father work us a perpetual peace.
II.
And that far-beaming blaze of Majesty,
Wherwith he wont at Heav'ns high Councel-Table,
To sit the midst of Trinal Unity,
He laid aside; and here with us to be,
Forsook the Courts of everlasting Day,
And chose with us a darksom House of mortal Clay.
III.
Afford a present to the Infant God?
Hast thou no vers, no hymn, or solemn strein,
To welcom him to this his new abode,
Now while the Heav'n by the Suns team untrod,
Hath took no print of the approching light,
And all the spangled host keep watch in squadrons bright?
IV.
The Star-led Wisards haste with odours sweet:
O run, prevent them with thy humble ode,
And lay it lowly at his blessed feet;
Have thou the honour first, thy Lord to greet,
And joyn thy voice unto the Angel Quire,
From out his secret Altar toucht with hallow'd fire
THE HYMN.
While the Heav'n-born-childe,
All meanly wrapt in the rude manger lies;
Nature in aw to him
Had doff't her gawdy trim,
With her great Master so to sympathize:
It was no season then for her
To wanton with the Sun her lusty Paramour.
II.
She woo's the gentle Air
To hide her guilty front with innocent Snow,
And on her naked shame,
Pollute with sinfull blame,
The Saintly Vail of Maiden white to throw,
Confounded, that her Makers eyes
Should look so neer upon her foul deformities.
III.
Sent down the meek-eyd Peace.
She crown'd with Olive green, came softly sliding
Down through the turning sphear
His ready Harbinger,
With Turtle wing the amorous clouds dividing,
And waving wide her mirtle wand,
She strikes a universall Peace through Sea and Land.
IV.
Was heard the World around:
The idle spear and shield were high up hung;
The hooked Chariot stood
Unstain'd with hostile blood,
The Trumpet spake not to the armed throng,
And Kings sate still with awfull eye,
As if they surely knew their sovran Lord was by.
V.
Wherin the Prince of light
His raign of peace upon the earth began:
The Windes with wonder whist,
Smoothly the waters kist,
Whispering new joyes to the milde Ocean,
Who now hath quite forgot to rave,
While Birds of Calm sit brooding on the charmed wave.
VI.
Stand fixt in stedfast gaze,
Bending one way their pretious influence,
And will not take their flight,
For all the morning light,
Or Lucifer that often warn'd them thence;
But in their glimmering Orbs did glow,
Untill their Lord himself bespake, and bid them go.
VII.
Had given day her room,
The Sun himself with-held his wonted speed,
And hid his head for shame,
As his inferiour flame,
The new-enlightn'd world no more should need;
He saw a greater Sun appear
Then his bright Throne, or burning Axletree could bear.
VIII.
Or ere the point of dawn,
Sate simply chatting in a rustick row;
Full little thought they than,
That the mighty Pan
Was kindly com to live with them below;
Perhaps their loves, or els their sheep,
Was all that did their silly thoughts so busie keep.
IX.
Their hearts and ears did greet,
As never was by mortall finger strook,
Divinely-warbled voice
Answering the stringed noise,
As all their souls in blisfull rapture took:
The Air such pleasure loth to lose,
With thousand echo's still prolongs each heav'nly close.
X.
Beneath the hollow round
Of Cynthia's seat, the Airy region thrilling,
Now was almost won
To think her part was don,
And that her raign had here its last fulfilling;
She knew such harmony alone
Could hold all Heav'n and Earth in happier union.
XI.
A Globe of circular light,
That with long beams the shame-fac't night array'd,
The helmed Cherubim
And sworded Seraphim,
Are seen in glittering ranks with wings displaid,
Harping in loud and solemn quire,
Witn unexpressive notes to Heav'ns new-born Heir.
XII.
Before was never made,
But when of old the sons of morning sung,
While the Creator Great
His constellations set,
And the well-ballanc't world on hinges hung,
And cast the dark foundations deep,
And bid the weltring waves their oozy channel keep.
XIII.
Once bless our human ears,
(If ye have power to touch our senses so)
And let your silver chime
Move in melodious time;
And let the Base of Heav'ns deep Organ blow,
And with your ninefold harmony
Make up full consort to th'Angelike symphony.
XIV.
Enwrap our fancy long,
Time will run back, and fetch the age of gold,
And speckl'd vanity
Will sicken soon and die,
And leprous sin will melt from earthly mould,
And Hell it self will pass away,
And leave her dolorous mansions to the peering day.
XV.
Will down return to men,
Th enameld Arras of the Rainbow wearing,
And Mercy set between,
Thron'd in Celestiall sheen,
With radiant feet the tissued clouds down stearing,
And Heav'n as at som festivall,
Will open wide the Gates of her high Palace Hall.
XVI.
This must not yet be so,
The Babe lies yet in smiling Infancy,
That on the bitter cross
Must redeem our loss;
So both himself and us to glorifie:
Yet first to those ychain'd in sleep.
The wakefull trump of doom must thunder through the deep,
XVII.
As on mount Sinai rang
While the red fire, and smouldring clouds out brake:
The aged Earth agast
With terrour of that blast,
Shall from the surface to the center shake;
When at the worlds last session,
The dreadfull Judge in middle Air shall spread his throne.
XVIII.
Full and perfect is,
But now begins; for from this happy day
Th'old Dragon under ground
In straiter limits bound,
Not half so far casts his usurped sway,
And wrath to see his Kingdom fail,
Swindges the scaly Horrour of his foulded tail.
XIX.
No voice or hideous humm
Runs through the arched roof in words deceiving.
Apollo from his shrine
Can no more divine,
With hollow shreik the steep of Delphos leaving.
No nightly trance, or breathed spell,
Inspire's the pale-ey'd Priest from the prophetic cell.
XX.
And the resounding shore,
A voice of weeping heard, and loud lament;
From haunted spring, and dale
Edg'd with poplar pale,
The parting Genius is with sighing sent,
With flowre-inwov'n tresses torn
The Nimphs in twilight shade of tangled thickets mourn.
XXI.
And on the holy Hearth,
The Lars, and Lemures moan with midnight plaint,
In Urns, and Altars round,
A drear, and dying sound
Affrights the Flamins at their service quaint;
And the chill Marble seems to sweat,
While each peculiar power forgoes his wonted seat.
XXII.
Forsake their Temples dim,
With that twise-batter'd god of Palestine,
And mooned Ashtaroth,
Heav'ns Queen and Mother both,
Now sits not girt with Tapers holy shine,
The Libyc Hammon shrinks his horn,
In vain the Tyrian Maids their wounded Thamuz mourn.
XXIII.
Hath left in shadows dred,
His burning Idol all of blackest hue,
In vain with Cymbals ring,
They call the grisly king,
In dismall dance about the furnace blue,
The brutish gods of Nile as fast,
Isis and Orus, and the Dog Anubis hast.
XXIV.
In Memphian Grove, or Green,
Trampling the unshowr'd Grasse with lowings loud:
Nor can he be at rest
Within his sacred chest,
Naught but profoundest Hell can be his shroud,
In vain with Timbrel'd Anthems dark
The sable-stoled Sorcerers bear his worshipt Ark.
XXV.
The dredded Infants hand,
The rayes of Bethlehem blind his dusky eyn;
Nor all the gods beside,
Longer dare abide,
Not Typhon huge ending in snaky twine:
Our Babe to shew his Godhead true,
Can in his swadling bands controul the damned crew.
XXVI.
Curtain'd with cloudy red,
Pillows his chin upon an Orient wave,
The flocking shadows pale,
Troop to th'infernall jail,
Each fetter'd Ghost slips to his severall grave,
And the yellow-skirted Fayes,
Fly after the Night-steeds, leaving their Moon-lov'd maze.
XXVII.
Hath laid her Babe to rest.
Time is our tedious Song should here have ending,
Heav'ns youngest teemed Star,
Hath fixt her polisht Car,
Her sleeping Lord with Handmaid Lamp attending.
And all about the Courtly Stable,
Bright-harnest Angels sit in order serviceable.